Real People Who Deserve to be Seen
Some dread that awkward moment, but I see it as an invitation to brighten someone’s day. While there are many ways to share kindness and the love of Jesus, this is just one way I’ve found and the reasons I feel compelled to give…
Pulling up to the red light, I fumbled for my bag and blindly rummaged through it to find a few dollars. I smiled as I lowered my window and waited for him to approach my car. Sometimes the signs are humorous like "give me a dollar and I'll vote for Trump" and some tear at my heartstrings like “homeless vet” or “single mom trying to feed my children.” On this particular day, the man’s sign read “God bless you.” No matter the sign’s message, I usually try to give something. And his sign that day confirmed my intentions.
Four motives warrant our response to give to panhandlers:
Jesus commands it. Matthew 5:42 reminds us to “Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.” He doesn’t give a disclaimer to give to those who are worthy or go to church or spend their money wisely. Thankfully He doesn’t hold us responsible for how the money we give is spent. (One idea is to carry fast-food gift cards to hand out, but whatever we give, it’s important to do so cheerfully.)
These men and women who are panhandling unknowingly provide a valuable service. They are a visible reminder of all the others who are marginalized and struggling to make ends meet. They represent those in our society who have mental or physical challenges, and we have the great privilege through our small act of kindness to add hope to their day. (I personally have several homeless friends, and am praying that someone is helping them out, as well.)
We can give out of a grateful heart that humbly understands we could be standing in their place. Yes, some have made poor choices that have landed them on street corners, but some have endured hardships that have dictated circumstances that were beyond their control. As the old proverb goes, “Oh, but for the grace of God go I.”
Everyone has a story. Though time is usually of the essence, listening to a little piece of their story gives them the opportunity to feel valued and know their story matters. Just looking them in the eyes and acknowledging they are real people brings more hope than we can imagine. We all long to be seen and heard. In my experience, no one has ever been at a loss for words when asked how to pray for them.
I have a fifth and I admit it’s rather self-serving, but in my desire to be authentic, I’ll share. Giving to others makes me feel good. And it’s validated by Proverbs 11:25, “those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.” There are so many ways to bless others. Our prayer is you’ll discover the ones that are right for you.
And next time you pull up to a red light or pass a panhandler in the metro, whether you feel led to give or not, remember to smile and acknowledge these men and women, showing some extra kindness to brighten someone else’s day.
photo by Matt Collamer, Unsplash